CULTIVATE INNER BEAUTY: A beautiful, charming young woman or man is a delightful companion. But what if there are hypocrisy and selfish vanity and undesirable personalities lurking behind the physical charm? Then the beauty is only skin deep, and it hides an inner ugliness. How much better if the good looks are complimented by an unfading inner beauty, such as kindness, generosity, mildness. People are attracted to someone who uses kind, tactful speech and who shows consideration for others. Acceptable set of manners is like a passport, allowing freedom and access to people.
As a matter of fact you must leave undesirable trait such as bitterness, anger, cruelty and selfishness. Customs and rules of etiquette vary around the world. So you may want to observe how mature men and women treat one another. In case of men for example, is it customary in your country for a man to hold a car door open for a woman? Then learning to extend this courtesy will enhance your reputation as a poised, mannerly person. Develop your inner beauty and that desired mate might just be attracted like magnet to you!
DEVELOP USEFUL SKILL:In the meantime during your searching period take out time to develop yourself, it could be furthering your education,engaging in vocational studies ,learning a trade or skill or learn how to drive.These skills are essential in your future relationship or eventual marriage.
CULTIVATE A BALANCED SENSE OF HUMOR:While you do not need to be a comedian such as the popular ones Alibaba, Basket mouth and others,there is a great need for you to show a kind of sense of humor in your dating-YOU need not be to serious at all time. A small line of joke is not out of place when on a date or together. From my person experience people actually like their prospective mate to be jovial and friendly, as a matter of fact been jovial rank as one the factors many singles says they desire in a prospective mate.
SHOW AN EXPANSIVE LOVE: expansive love is not stingy, confined, or circumscribed. It must be shared to others such as friends, family members, business associate or your school mate. I’m not speaking of romantic love here, it literal love. It is very important that you express this kind of love to all persons, because people notice your relationship and dealings with others, this act can help in attracting you to a mate who have seen your good heart and loving care. This is reasonable since you personally will be easily attracted to someone who shows care, understanding, kindness and love.
HAVE REALISTIC VIEW OF PROSPECTIVE MATE: while it is natural for you to desire your prospective mate to be handsome or beautiful, rich, gregarious and witty in word, you must remember that it quite difficult for one individual to have all the desirable qualities that is why you have to be realistic and have objective analysis of issues. There are cases where some enter into relationship and from there other things such as riches falls into place, hence if a suitor comes to you and measure up to some reasonable degree, don’t hesitate to start dating or someone else might grab the offer and it become too late, act fast and you will be surprise that the relationship may result into blissful one.
