Why is it so difficult for love to be right, for love to be perfect and everything should be rosy and lovely and all that, it comes down to one thing we just can’t have it all ...
A girl trying to do all she can to win the heart of one through love and the guy not giving a damn about her and all she does is cry and cry, and you begin to wonder what is it you find in him or her that makes you leave it all for him or her, that makes you throw all your effort and yet it's still futile because the opposite partner do not care about all that. He or she do not give a damn about your sacrifices, all he thinks is selfish thoughts.
In fact we are all selfish in a way we all want to satisfy our own individual needs and wants.. but there are some few people that are different and those people are those that never get to find the love that is be thrown or lavished on some other persons ... there is this BOY or GIRL out there that will know your worth and cherish the love you waste on someone else .
Only if we learn to recognize and appreciate the little people around us , the little thing that makes life worth living , those thing we really look and through our faces the other way.
Most girls go for the wonderful man , for the so called ALPHA male and when the alpha male shows he is the alpha male , then they go crying and all in pain , then the so called weak males , that show a woman love unconditionally even when the girl is having someone else , they are all patient loving, caring and makes her the number one priority , SUCH MALES WILL BE DUMPED. And the so called sweet and wonderful males with the sugar coated tongues, have all the girls in the world in their hand and some girls would even be jostling for number one position in the numerous girlfriend list ….*smh*
Know your worth , “”say what you have to say and when he or she is not commeasuring your efforts and your sacrifices, then you should move on , it’s difficult I know but it’s what is right for you. You should never be any body's fool, be you weak or strong when it comes to relationship, it should be 50-50 or from the “African Perspective “ 60-40 , it should never be 90-10 0r 80-20 .
This is a true life story, I want to share here…….
Once upon a time I knew a guy ‘Dave’, loving this girl and the girl was dating a top shot and she thought she was happy, but deep down she wasn’t , even when she had it all (material things) she lacked love and care, because the boy felt he is doing everything .. Dave was this neighbor that loved the girl at first sight, he felt hurt whenever the boy hits the girl. He always made himself available to the girl to support her, to console her. He always showed her care and love, but he did not have the material / financial status to keep the girl. This went on for a while and the guy opened up one day and said to her, I like you , and I wish one day you will open your eyes and see that this your present boyfriend do not love you, and then you would know, it’s better to be happy ... On this last event that the domino fell apart, the girl was beaten and she was hospitalized, while the guy came every 2days to check on her, Dave ‘the neighbor’ came every day and passed the night there in the hospital .. it was this event that made her realize, she meant nothing to her boyfriend, while she meant everything to the neighbor DAVE .
It still did not end up the way you will think.....
Keep your fingers crossed, post a comment and I will tell you how it ended.... but I must tell you it was controversial
