Is love suppose to be based on Color or Ethnicity? the truth is that love is not supposed to be base on these things but on the potent chemistry that is ignited when men and women she some compatible features to get romantically involved. But that is not my case, for ethnicity have deprived me of my so called happily ever after, guys judge me with my state of origin " guy, that girl is form delta state, u know they can be hot headed".
This sometimes make me wonder, " should I deny where I hail for, so I can be romantic attracted to guys"( especially the man of choice". The most recent that left me with a bleeding heart was having a man of my dreams n watch it dissolve like it never happened, I wished it was just a dream, but the pain of it being a reality ameliorated the pain.
I thought I could call Efe mine at least, but the evil face of Ethnicity surfaced again this time with a more stronger force. We dated for years, and he couldn't stay away, always renewing d relationship,but when he came to knock the door of seriousness and commitment, the wind of ethnicity came in form of his mother, where was she all this time we were dating, " why now?" I asked myself. " I don't want my son to marry a Deltan, I want an Edo girl for him", so she said?. Who am I to blame, ethnicity or the mother? who had deprived me form the fairy tale life I dreamt of.