Are You the Other Woman? 5 Signs He’s Not Really Single

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Dating nowadays can be a struggle. We’ve seen our friends get hurt by cheaters, and may have fallen victim to the heartbreak of betrayal yourself. Today’s modern world makes it much easier to sneak around without getting caught. Here are a few telltale signs that show that your new guy might not be as trustworthy as he says he is.

1. Out of the Way Dates. Does he avoid crowded and popular places? If he’s more into obscure bars and hole in the wall restaurants, you may be the other woman. He may be afraid to be seen with you and is going to whatever lengths he can to keep you hidden from anyone he knows. When he schedules these dates can also give you a glimpse into his true intentions. If he keeps meeting you during off hours and random times, he may be just conveniently fitting you into his hectic schedule of dating other women.

2. Never Meeting His Family or Friends. Think about a solid reason or two that would push you to keep your boyfriend and your loved ones apart. The truth is, unless that person is someone you aren’t serious about, there’s really no reason you wouldn’t introduce them to the people you care about most. If he doesn’t even want his friends to meet you, you’ve got a problem. He could be dating someone else or even married. Introducing you to his friends and family would cause awkward tension, especially if they themselves have a great relationship with the other woman he is seeing.

3. Taking Private Calls. Whenever he gets a phone call, does he answer it in front of you or does he talk in hushed tones and walk away? If he’s constantly running to the next room or going out of ear shot to take a phone call from “work,” there’s a good chance he was whispering excuses into his girlfriend or wife’s ear on why he would be late coming home. Taking private calls signals that he can’t trust you, or that he is trying to hide something…. That something he’s trying to hide just might be you….

4. Never Been to His Place. It’s only natural for a man to invite a woman over to their home or apartment when they are dating. If he always seems busy when you ask to come over, or he just never brings it up, he may be trying to hide something. He could live with a girlfriend, or girlfriend. End result: If he never invites you over, it’s for a good reason.

5. No Photos. We love taking photos. From selfies to date photos, it’s fun and super romantic to take pictures with your sweetie. But does he let you take photos at all? If he says he hates photos and refuses to put any pictures of the two of you up on social media, he may be trying to hide your relationship from his social circle. If he gets into arguments with you over your posting pictures, it’s safe to say he’s getting irrational not because he’s just really not a fan of photographs… He’s just not a fan of getting caught cheating.

Your guy may think he’s slick, but you now know what to look for. If you have a sneaking suspicion that he’s seeing someone else, consider the top 5 list above for confirmation. 





I agree with trinityice..... Men are wiser these days...... They will tick all the boxes highlighted above and still be the cheat king.... Beware!!!
Posted by tesh41 on Dec 12 2014 @00:27
Lol! sometimes I wonder why its all about women...
Posted by majekodunmip on Sep 20 2014 @12:06
I just read this write up . those pointers are for normal guys with a conscience what of the play boy who doesn't answer to anyone ?
he will introduce you to fellow play boys and even to parents , he will give keys to his house etc and yet u are just his plaything . what about that ?
we just need a divine hand becos these days they are covering their tracks better
Posted by trinityice on Aug 30 2014 @23:38
This is very true and useful!!!. Ladies watch out don't be blindfolded by that four letter word called Love. If you think love is blind in this modern age, you probably need to visit specsavers or vision express.
Posted by tina83 on Aug 20 2014 @20:54
Posted by enoprodigy on Aug 16 2014 @01:44
Yeap true talk
Posted by almyra on Aug 12 2014 @15:59
good one
Posted by tracycute on Aug 09 2014 @01:23
congrat. thank jehovah.
Posted by march01 on Jul 13 2014 @23:12
Nice one
Posted by bolexlove on Jul 12 2014 @11:20
are right
Posted by tracycute on Jul 10 2014 @08:26

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