Not one not two but many ladies have felt used and dumped by guys who profess care, love and affection for them, in most cases this happen because the ladies are victim of a player who disguise as a caring lover. For ladies out there not to fall for the alluring and charming ways of a player watch out for this signs.
1. MAKE GREAT USE OF PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: Most times he is blessed with a body to die for, lips to kill for. He is fully conscious of all these mouth-watering qualities, so he puts it to judicious use. Most players knows it all, in terms of how to look and what to wear at the right time. He is 90% conscious of how you see him from the outside, even though the real him has been covered up. He knows the perfume that can shut down a train station, he doesn’t mind spending his last penny on very outrageous clothes, because most times that is what he uses to shield and camouflage who he really is. Not every guy that likes to dress well is a player though but most times players take it to another level. He could appear so formal, simple, hippy, rugged or creative, but just have it at the back of your mind that he could actually be a player.
2. GOOD WITH WORDS: Most players are smooth talkers. They know what you want to hear because you are not the first neither will you be the last. Their words are so convincing and reassuring; it could make you jump in front of a moving train without thinking. Quickly and swiftly like a 4G connection they appeal to your emotions, compassion and ideology. They flow with time and they are never caught off guard. So be warned, most players are smooth talkers.
A player is also quick at using this words “I LOVE YOU”, “I WANT TO MARRY YOU”, “YOU ARE MY SOUL MATE”, “WITHOUT YOU I CAN’T CONCENTRATE”,”A¬¬M SORRY”,
“IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN”, and so on. The ease at which they use these words makes any one fall so fast. With speed of light.
3. THEY OOZE OUT SOME UNBELIEVABLE CONFIDENCE: Sometimes you even think he is superhuman. He looks you deep in the eyes and lie to you. They hardly stutter or miss words, they are very good Hollywood actors. Just give them the script and they act out any character of choice.
4. MOST PLAYERS ARE SOCIABLE: They thrive in the atmosphere of conviviality. They never get tired of meeting people, always looking for the next catch.
5. THEY USE RESERVES PSYCHOLOGY TO THE BEST OF THEIR ABILITIES: They know every rule in the book, so that makes them an excellent choice; with ease they play the mind game.
6. SO METICULOUS: A player would not want you to leave any of your things behind when you go visit. Even if you did, he will remind you and get it for you as quick as possible. This is often so because he does not want any other lady to see your belonging which might spell trouble for him
7. BOOK APPOINTMENT BEFORE COMING: Most players will tell you to always call before you come over, they hate surprise visits.
